When Dallas rapper BigXthaPlug dropped his new PSA with the Autism Society of America, he wasn’t just checking a box for Autism Acceptance Month. He was opening the door to his own living room and letting us all in on the real, sometimes messy, always meaningful journey of raising a child with autism.
More Than Just Words
BigXthaPlug’s son, Amar, is six now. He was diagnosed with autism at four, and let’s be honest, that kind of news can shake any parent to their core. The rapper doesn’t sugarcoat it. He talks about learning to “feel what he’s saying without him saying it.” If you’ve ever tried to read between the lines with someone you love, you know exactly what he means.
Here’s what stood out to me:
- Parenting gets flipped upside down. You think you know what being a dad means, then life throws you a curveball. Suddenly, you’re learning a whole new language-one that doesn’t always use words.
- Patience isn’t just a virtue, it’s a must-have. BigXthaPlug admits he had to slow down, listen differently, and find new ways to connect. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth its weight in gold.
- Frustration happens. He doesn’t pretend it’s all sunshine and rainbows. But those tough moments? They turn into lessons if you let them.
Breaking the Silence
One thing I really appreciate is how BigXthaPlug is willing to talk about autism in communities where it’s often swept under the rug. Let’s face it, in some circles, folks would rather not talk about it at all. But he’s not having that.
- He encourages parents to get curious about their kids, not just go through the motions.
- Every child on the spectrum is different. There’s no one-size-fits-all solution.
- He’s not just talking to parents, either. He’s nudging everyone to open their minds and hearts.
Real Talk: Why This Matters
Here’s my two cents: It takes guts to share your family’s story, especially when it’s not picture-perfect. BigXthaPlug isn’t just raising awareness; he’s showing what it looks like to show up for your child, day in and day out. That’s the kind of strength that doesn’t always get a spotlight.
If you ask me, we need more voices like his-people willing to speak up, break down walls, and remind us that every family’s story matters, quirks and all. Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is just be present, even when you don’t have all the answers.
So, hats off to BigXthaPlug. He’s not just making music; he’s making a difference, one honest conversation at a time. And honestly, isn’t that what really counts?
Citations:
- The Source. (2025, May 15). BigXthaPlug Drops Autism Awareness PSA: ‘You Learn to Feel What He’s Saying Without Him Saying It’. Retrieved from https://thesource.com/2025/05/15/watch-bigxthaplug-drops-autism-awareness-psa-you-learn-to-feel-what-hes-saying-without-him-saying-it/
- Hot 97. (2025, May 15). BigXThaPlug Teams With Autism Society of America For New PSA. Retrieved from https://www.hot97.com/news/bigxthaplug-teams-with-autism-society-of-america-for-new-psa/
- AOL. (2025, May 15). BigXthaPlug’s Son Gave Him a Newfound ‘Purpose.’ Why He’s Sharing Their Story for Autism Acceptance Month (Exclusive). Retrieved from https://www.aol.com/bigxthaplugs-son-gave-him-newfound-150000979.html
- Billboard. (2025, April 25). BigXthaPlug Posts Moving Video About Autistic Son in PSA for Autism Acceptance Month: ‘This Is Personal For Me’. Retrieved from https://www.billboard.com/music/rb-hip-hop/bigxthaplug-video-autistic-son-psa-autism-acceptance-month-1235955606/
- PEOPLE. (2025, April 25). BigXthaPlug’s Son Gave Him a Newfound ‘Purpose.’ Why He’s Sharing Their Story for Autism Acceptance Month (Exclusive). Retrieved from https://people.com/bigxthaplug-bond-with-son-who-has-autism-is-unshakable-exclusive-11721946
- Radio Big Boy. (2025, April 25). BigXthaPlug Embraces His Young Autistic Son: ‘To Me, Autism Is A Journey’. Retrieved from https://www.radiobigboy.com/content/2025-04-25-bigxthaplug-embraces-his-young-autistic-son-to-me-autism-is-a-journey/
